What gay porn doesn’t teach you about gay sex!

The internet makes access to porn easy and discreet for everyone! While this is great, watching porn is not going to teach you the reality of what gay sex is really like! Let’s address some of these misconceptions we gain from gay porn, and what you can really expect!

Take it slow

It all seems to just slide on in there so easily in porn, right? Wrong! What you don’t see is the preparation leading up to cock penetration! Sure, you see the finger action and maybe a little rimming, but sometimes the use of smaller buttplugs is rarely shown, or the fact muscle relaxants have been used and plenty of lube. The notion that it slips right in with no bother is an illusion! Don’t be fooled, there will need some preparation first!

Things will get messy

Lube gets everywhere! Using a water-based lube is best and will make penetration easier. But is messy, you can expect it to get everywhere, and it will ruin your bedsheets! Porn doesn’t show you this part, and there will be no one on hand to clean it up. You are going to get covered in it!

Douching is gross, but needed!

No surprise here that this less than erotic step is missed out of porn! Douching is totally necessary for a clean experience! You never see any, any other bodily secretions in porn, but this is because at least 30 minutes before the guys have douched! If you miss this step, lube being everywhere will be the least of your worries!

Versatility is for everyone!

In an ideal world, we would all be able to do both! But this is not an ideal world, and not everyone enjoys being on both ends! Talk to your partner and establish their preference, and experiment and find your own! Say no if being a bottom is uncomfortable for you! Know your partners and your own boundaries and stick to them!

Positions are everything!

Porn depicts that that anal sex is anal sex and does the job no matter the position! But for some, certain positions lose pleasure and just leave you in pain! Experiment with positions and find what works for you. You do not have to be able to take cock in every angle imaginable!

Threesomes

Aren’t as straight forward and flow as easily as porn makes them look! The is going to be a lot of communication, and maybe even some awkwardness establishing who is going where, in what hole and when! Don’t expect everyone to just instinctively know how is pegging who!

So, while porn is great for giving you a rough idea of gay sex, it is a through rose-tinted glasses. And if you expect it to be the same in real life, you are in for a short, sharp shock! It will take time, planning and preparation! Take your time and don’t feel you have to conform with the ideology of gay sex that porn portrays to you!